Moving is always difficult no matter when in your life it happens. But when you're older, it often feels even more overwhelming, especially if you've lived in your home for a long time. But even though it's difficult, there are ways to ensure an easier move.
- Have a thorough look through your home. Before you do anything, take a good look at your home and the things you need to move. Consider the size of the new place you'll be moving to and which items you'll want to move and which you'll need to get rid of. Be realistic and practical, but don't forget to keep items that make you happy, too. Too often when we move we get rid of things that aren't used even though we like having them around. Set priorities of what you need and want, then make note of the things you won't be moving. This will give you a good idea of how much will need to be packed and moved/
- Know the value of your things. So often when we move, we're in such a hurry to get rid of things that we forget that some of our things might be valuable. Before you get rid of stuff, find out its value, then decide whether to keep them or sell them through a reputable dealer.
- Consider hiring help. There are many services available to you to help with the packing and the move. Some companies offer specialized services to seniors, that includes helping you sort through your things, packing them and ensure they're moved and unpacked at your new home. If you can't find a local company that specializes in moves for seniors, then the next best option is to hire a professional packing company. While you'll be spending a little more money for the extra help, it's worth the cost considering the amount of time and energy needed to sort through your things, get rid of stuff and pack what remains.
- Recruit family, friends and neighbors. To save money, ask family, friends and neighbors for their help. Family and friends can help you sort through your things and also help with packing. Neighbors might be interested in helping to host a neighborhood garage sale where you can sell some of your things. People who care for you will also help ease the stress of moving by supporting you through the move.
- Be good to yourself. Remember, moving is stressful so it's important to take care of yourself during this time. Get lots of rest. Eat well and reach out to others if you need support.
- Let yourself be emotional. Moving is an emotional time. With memories surrounding you, it's expected that you'll feel upset about leaving, that you'll be nostalgic for good times you had in the home and if you're like me, you'll go through a grieving period. Let yourself go through the emotions, knowing that you'll create new memories in your new home, and that the memories you have will always stay with you.
