Hopefully, you had a chance to read International Moving: Culture Shock. That article explained what culture shock is and how you can recognize it for your international move. Now, that's good information to know; however, what we all really want is a solution to it, right? No one wants to endure through the pains of adjustment. Wouldn't we all rather snap our fingers and jump forward in time to when we feel comfortable in our new surroundings?
Since that's not an option, I thought we'd look at ways that you can adjust to the new culture before you even leave the old one. It's a kind of armchair traveler idea; experiencing it while never leaving the comforts of home. It can help. Or at least it can prepare you for what you may encounter.
Language
We'll start with the most obvious: language. If you're moving to a country where the primary language is different than your own, then it's a good idea to start learning the new language.If you have the time and money, the best way to learn a new language is to take lessons. I recommend a classroom setting as opposed to a one-on-one. The classroom will allow for a greater interchange and for you to meet people with similar goals. Classes are available through the local college, high school or from private language schools. Before you sign up, ask what the objectives of the course are and what are the measurable outcomes. Some classes focus only on oral, while others are primarily for travelers who need to learn specific phrases. Some private language institutions will also offer custom classes, a chance for you to ask specific questions about what you may encounter. This is a great way to find answers that are specific to your needs and experience.
Resources:
- The Language School Guide allows you to search for the language you want to learn and where you want to learn it.
- EF- a private language school with locations around the world.
- Language Studies International also offers a range of language classes in different parts of the world.
If you need to learn a language that isn't offered by a local school, place an ad for a tutor in the college or city newspaper. Most people who respond to ads are or were immigrants rather than those who've learned the language in a classroom. This is a great way to ask questions of the culture and at the same time make a new friend.
If you're short on time and money, you can always visit your local public library and borrow language tapes. Even though this isn't the ideal way to learn a new language, just hearing the cadence and getting a feel for the rhythm will help. I also recommend buying a phrase book or translator. Even though you may only use it for the first little while, it is nice to have that security blanket handy.
The last tip I have, that can also be a lot of fun, is to rent foreign films from your local video store. Not only will you be listening to the new language for a couple of hours (that is, if you're not too busy concentrating on the subtitles), but you'll also see and experience some of the culture, social roles and ways of living first hand. Look for both documentaries, such as travel digests, and narrative films. Narrative films will provide you with a insider's viewpoint that can't always be found in travelogues.
Culture
Learning about another culture is not as straight forward as a language. Culture can vary from region to region within the same country. Culture is something that you almost have to experience to understand.Having said that, there are still some ways you can discover another culture, even before you move. Some I have already mentioned, such as specific classes or films or meeting with someone who is from that specific culture.
One of the best ways, and again a lot of fun, is to attend specific social events, festivals, restaurants and shops. Most cities have international communities, such as Chinatown or Little Italy or Greektown. Find these areas and go exploring. Immerse yourself in the sounds and sights and smells. While this is just a taste of what is to come, it is a start. See if you can find any upcoming festivals or cultural events to attend. See a play. Visit a museum. Go to the local movie theatre. All these activities can help you feel what it will be like once you move. Knowing what to expect, even on a much smaller scale, will help you prepare for the change.
